I too struggled with the contrast between acceptable performance attire for men vs women.
The guys showed up in a wrinkled t shirt and dirty cowboy boots while I was expected to wear my hair down, cute outfit and makeup.
For almost 2 years, I purposely performed with my hair pulled back and something casual because I wanted the audience to concentrate on my songs and take me seriously.
But I agree with your blog and what you learned. At this point, I feel like I just need to be the best version of myself and that includes my appearance for a show.
I too struggled with the contrast between acceptable performance attire for men vs women.
The guys showed up in a wrinkled t shirt and dirty cowboy boots while I was expected to wear my hair down, cute outfit and makeup.
For almost 2 years, I purposely performed with my hair pulled back and something casual because I wanted the audience to concentrate on my songs and take me seriously.
But I agree with your blog and what you learned. At this point, I feel like I just need to be the best version of myself and that includes my appearance for a show.
Thank you for sharing!
"Respect" - the key point, yes. My singer son has learned to really enjoy clothing. It's a source of genuine pleasure.
Love to hear that! It becomes part of the overall creative process of being a musician once you embrace it.